For new home buyers looking to buy a home around Lexington or Arlington MA, an early step you will take is to speak to a lender and obtain a pre-approval letter. You might be surprised to learn that many people are “less than truthful” with lenders when discussing their financing options. I always ponder the reasoning behind this “less than truthful” approach! When you think about it, what’s the point? Just as a doctor or accountant cannot give you accurate advice without your truthful participation, neither can a lender. If you pick and choose who who you share your truths with, there is ONE place you should be totally straight up, and that’s with your lending officer.
1) Professional Advice – When you are speaking to a lender and looking to secure a loan, you will be asked for certain information required for a lending institution to loan you perhaps hundreds of thousands of dollars. To be less than truthful is not only illegal on an application, your lender will be unable to give you the useful information you truly need to make good decisions for yourself and your family. Lenders know the ever-changing guidelines, and they will let you know not only what you can afford, but if you do have extenuating circumstances, they can help you work through them legally. To not avail yourself to their advice, and to deceive a bank of full disclosure, is double folly. Lying on stated income loan application is fraud, and can result in penalties or foreclosure.
2) What’s your time worth? – Sometimes people don’t provide all the right details to their lender because they don’t want to take the time to gather all their financial information, but if the truth comes out while your loan is trying to pass through operations you may have to start over or go through additional procedures to set things right. If your purchase involves relocation, selling of existing home, etc. this delay could blow up to giant proportions and affect many people in the process.
3) Better service – Even if it is slightly embarrassing, be willing to share your obstacles. Regardless of the circumstances, whether it is it immigration status, several personally owned businesses, poor credit rating, income that is not documented, an ex-spouse that has you financially entangled (just an example), you MUST tell your loan officer of these noteworthy circumstances so he or she can work around (and through) them. Waiting until your documentation is in operations for approval is not the time to suddenly be completely truthful. Last minute surprises lead to underwriting complications and delays, possibly causing you to miss critical deadlines – a costly problem you want to avoid!
4) Lower interest rate – We have found that clients who do a full pre-approval well in advance of writing an offer and applying for a loan, who leave nothing out, supply all materials requested by their lender, and have no “surprise” information appear later, have the smoothest experience getting a loan, at the best rate. They will always try to save you money if your circumstances allow. Even though it feels unnatural to share much of your private information with a stranger, it is the only way to get excellent and true advice when making one of life’s biggest investments.
I have heard of people “doctoring” pay stubs, providing statements with intentionally missing pages, lied about marriages, divorce in progress, sources of funds intended for deposits, and even who have receive suspiciously large sums of money right before closing. In many cases a good lender can work around the challenge once it’s identified, but “surprises” of this nature normally ended up costing the client time, money and aggravation.
Don’t take it personally when you are asked for private information and documentation by a lending officer. They do not ask for personal information unless it is (a) required by law or (b) the policy of the institution. Since the person working on your mortgage cannot change the rules, it is in your best interest to take time to develop some trust, and if you put in an application, do it completely and honestly from the beginning. If you cannot be completely truthful, this may not be a good time for you to buy a home! Your lender has your best interest in mind, and you don’t want to tie their hands when they are the link between you and buying your Dream Home. Pick a reputable lender and you will not be disappointed.
So, when you start the pre-approval process, and you are asked for your personal and financial information, give it straight and you will get better service and save money and time.












